Today, I add a new year to my years and I am so excited about it.
Today, I wear my scars with so much pride because they brought me life lessons.
These life lessons I used to be afraid to share but now I’m not afraid to share because they brought my blessings.
Blessings that are beyond my expectations and imaginations and more blessings coming…
Well, let me just share a few with you;
If it was not for crashing my head when living too fast, I would never have learned to take life slowly.
If it was not for the wrong turns, I would never have known which way was right.
If it was not for the fake love I got from people, I would never have learned to love myself.
If it was not for the few friends who betrayed me in the past, I would have never got to know that I should be my own bestfriend.
If it was not for the wrong boys I have been with, I would never have appreciated the good ones that later came through and most importantly, the awesome one that I have right now. (I love you, my darlling).
If it was not for the days of being broke and finanacial hardship, I would have never got to know it was wiser to save for rainy days.
If it was not for rejections, I would never have learned to embrace myself.
If my secrets were not leaked via my friends, I would never have learned to be my own confidant.
If I was not tagged as “fake” “bad” “shady” and the likes, I would never have learned to strive harder to be the realest version of me and to be a better person everyday.
If it was not for the undeserved treatment I got from some people, I would never have known that I deserve the best.
If it was not for God, I would not have know that I needed to pray and praise God at all times.
I could go on and on and on and on…
I know to some people, I am the wrong girl and the person they ever met, but wouldn’t they have been worse if they were in my shoes for some actions I took? (I’m just saying).
And to some, I’m the most awesome person they ever met. Thanks to these people that saw the positive part of me.
Do not be afraid to wear your scars after any defeat. No one can use your flaws against you, If you greatly embrace them. Just because each scar comes with a lesson, and in every lesson there’s a BLESSING!